I have a friend named Miguel, hindi ko alam na love ko siya, ngayon ko lang na realize yun ng sabihin niya sa akin na gusto niya ang classmate ko.
I was so hurt that day, pero hindi ko pinahalata, kaya pumayag ako na maging tulay niya s classmate ko.
You know, I want to tell him na may feelings ako for him, kaya lang natatakot ako na masira ang friendship that we have.
Can you tell me what to do?
Masaya ako at ako ang napagsabihan mo ng problem mo.
I know what you feel, because I’ve been in that situation before. J
Girl, I know why you agreed na maging tulay ka ng classmate mo at ni Miguel, actually I would do the same if we are on the same shoes, but the question is bukal bas a puso mo ang maging tulay ka nila?
If YES, then do it. But be ready for the heartaches that you will about to face.
If NO, stop it and tell him na ayaw mong maging tulay nila at kapag tinanong ka niya kung bakit. Just smile and say that you can’t.
As for your feeling towards him, ano bang gusto mo, maging kayo? Then you have two options.
First. you can love him secretly to keep your friendship, pero iparamdam mo ang love mo sa kanya by supporting him on whatever decision he’s in to, be understanding and be sweet.
You can never tell, baka dahil dyan ay magkagusto din siya sayo, but always set limitations and know where to stop especially when all your efforts are not appreciated. J
Second. Be brave and take a risk, because in every destruction eventually there is construction. Kailangan mo munang masira ang meron kayo ngayon para makagawa ka ng mas matibay at tatagal para sa future.
Sabihin mo sa kanya ang nararamdaman mo, if hindi mo kaya ng personal, idaan mo sa sulat.
Chloe, the decision is up to you, if he accept it or reject it always remember na hindi puro saya ang mararanasan natin ditto sa mundo, but we have to be brave enough and don’t let sadness knock us down, we’ll fall and we’ll cry but never ever give up; because in every wandering we’ve been through we’ll bloom.